Robin, thanks for your suggestion. I think that it will come to that again, but i wanted to try to hold out until at least next spring. She is still doing so much better than what she was doing in the dementia unit. We havent been to her neurologist in awhile, just the psychiratrist, i want to talk to him about some of the studies of Dr Bovea ? and other suggestions I have picked up along the way from the forum. I needed a little release last nite. I guess it is normal! I "yelled" in my writing instead of at her! Her primary did suggest that i give her two klonopin at nite, one around 7 pm and i could repeat around 11-12 if needed, depending on how early she needed to get up the next day. I just started having someone come in from 4-8 pm two times a week so that i can cook dinner, help the kids with homework, take a shower (ha) in peace. Again, thanks, and I will be reading and keeping the faith!